Neither of Them?

Experiences are the best teacher they say and people ought to learn from them. Some people say you don’t have to wait for experiences, you can learn from others. Therefore pointing you in some direction or towards whom they think you should emulate. In the end the situation they point to you doesn’t fit ‘cos its you. I say; if you haven’t been there, don’t go there, for there’s little you can speak to.

At first, that decision might feel like the right thing to do, but when you begin to hear different suggestions from different angles, it begins to sound all right at the same time. When opinions become amplified, of course confusion takes its course. Some are left with no choice than to succumb to one of many opinions. Others decide on one, believing nothing can be more accurate. But ignorantly unaware that some part of them had already yielded in one way or other to the pressure surrounding them.

And the dangerous of all, are those that take a little bit of every suggestion and implement them. These kinds of people possibly end up worse than they were and then a fresh set of suggestions begin to stream in…again. They find themselves alas back at the beginning.

Some will listen, take it all in, their eyes will do the speaking, no need for words. Later marinate on the words that were spoken. Thereafter go for the most satisfactory. Not because it makes them happy but because it makes the people around them happy…..